Well I’d say you have so.e really nice offers here… 
… still I’d like to add Dragon Cohort TMA to your list of choices. We are active/casual…we do coordinate tanks/flanks for war but no spreadsheets or micromanagement. Sitting comfortably @13* titans we only ask that everyone gets a hit in but you are not expected to use a ton of items. Sometimes chatty international group. I guess the only real requirement is participation.
We have a thread in AR you can check out and line is available…
Good luck wherever you decide to make your home!
P.S. we’re not new anymore…lol