@DMP Hi there! We do not use discord, but we use line app for communication. We participate in wars and win most of them, but we are not hardcore about them (like coordinating every attack and so on) - after all, there would be little point in doing so, while we win most of them already and AW rewards are quite meh.
As for other factors mentioned in your topic - we are active alliance, but not hardcore. If somebody mentions that he might be less active in following days due to travel, sickness, good weather , or other matters, we are fine with that - what matters for us that every of us contributes a lot in long term. Chattiness, at least for me, is at healthy level - there is some talk going on, but chat is transparent and you can quickly find what’s going on.
Should you have more questions, feel free to ask.