Apparently, pointing out how someone is doing exactly what they are criticizing others for doing is being “rude” and “abusive”… LOL. Defensive much?
And I apologize that I have a signature phrase I put on almost all my posts that goes back about 15 years to other video game forums I’ve been involved with. 
Let me change my ways for you, since me saying something positive bothers you.
I’m done with this thread, and I had to look up my notes on how to modify my forum block list, that doesn’t come up very often.
I’ll just leave the OP with a link to this thread… perhaps you’ve already seen it, but it has some really good advice. It expanded into a huge thread, but the link is to NPNKY who is a respected player and forum contributor and has some good advice, also. Maybe once omg posts some in-depth player guides, I’ll revisit my opinion. But probably not. 